If you look around, this phrase is everywhere. I’ve seen it on t-shirts and tattoos. There have been multiple songs with this title, as well as a movie. It’s even what Ace Frehley, the former lead guitarist of the rock band “Kiss”, called his autobiography. (Really, Ace? You don’t regret that makeup…?)

 

Although it seems like a noble sentiment, I’m not sure that it’s a motto that should guide a